Establishing a Connection

Just like a job seeker looking for the right opening, recruiters spend their time looking for the right candidates. They want to connect with motivated and enthusiastic job seekers who can potentially be presented to their clients, the end-user employers.

While recruiters can be extremely valuable allies in your job search, building a strong relationship with them requires effort, professionalism, and clear communication. In this lesson, I’ll teach you how to leverage third-party recruiters for maximum job search success.

Making initial contact

Your first interaction with a recruiter sets the tone for the entire relationship. Whether you’re hitting them up on the phone or sliding into their LinkedIn DMs, your goal is to present yourself as a professional who is serious about their career search.

Contacting recruiters by phone

Reaching out to recruiters by phone can be an effective way to demonstrate your enthusiasm and assertiveness. This method lets you introduce yourself personally and start building a connection immediately. Here are some sample phone scripts:

For cold calling a recruiting firm (aka staffing agency or headhunter):

Hello, my name is [Your Name], and I’m currently seeking opportunities in [Industry or Broad Job Title]. I’m hoping to speak with a recruiter who specializes in this area. Could you please connect me with someone who works on these types of roles?

If you get the recruiter on the line:

Hi [Recruiter’s Name], I’m [Your Name], a recent graduate with a background in [Your Degree/Field]. I’m actively looking for opportunities in [Industry or Specific Role] and would love to discuss how my skills could be a match for the positions you’re recruiting for. Do you have a few minutes to chat, or could we schedule a time that works for you?

This approach is direct yet polite, allowing you to make a strong first impression while respecting the recruiter’s time.

Insider Tip

Briefly research the recruiting firm beforehand by visiting their website and LinkedIn page. Understanding their expertise and industry focus will help you tailor your approach and make a more meaningful connection.

Connecting with recruiters on LinkedIn

LinkedIn is a powerful platform for building professional connections, especially with recruiters. A well-crafted LinkedIn message can help you stand out and establish a meaningful connection.

Sample LinkedIn message:

Hi [Recruiter’s Name], I hope you’re doing well. My name is [Your Name], and I recently graduated with a degree in [Your Degree]. I’m actively looking for opportunities in [Industry or Field] and was hoping to connect with you. I would love to learn more about any roles you might be recruiting for that align with my background. Thank you for considering my request, and I look forward to connecting.

This message is professional yet approachable, making it clear that you’re interested in opportunities and open to dialogue.

Don’t

Don’t send generic connection requests. Personalize your message by referencing the specific role or industry you’re interested in, and make it clear that you’re open to dialogue.

Establishing and maintaining rapport

Be prepared and professional

Keep the momentum going after that first hello. Recruiters remember candidates who are clear about what they want, responsive, and easy to work with. Let them know the types of roles you’re targeting, the industries you’re interested in, and any particular skills or experiences you want to leverage. The more explicitly you communicate your goals, the better your recruiter can align their efforts with your needs.

Insider Tip

When tailoring your resume for a recruiter, include industry-specific keywords that match the roles you’re targeting. Recruiters often use these keywords to search for candidates in their database.

Don’t

Don’t overpromise. Be honest about your skills, experience, and career goals. Trying to sell yourself for roles that you aren’t qualified for can hurt your credibility in the long run.

Stay in regular contact

Maintaining regular communication is key. Reach out periodically to keep the recruiter posted on your job hunt or any new preferences you might have.

Suggested follow-up email:

Hi [Recruiter’s Name],

I wanted to touch base and let you know that I’m still actively searching for opportunities in [Industry or Field]. I’ve refined my resume and am now focusing on roles that involve [Specific Skills or Experiences]. Please let me know if anything new has come up that might be a good fit. I appreciate your continued support.

Best regards,
[Your Name]

Don’t

Don’t bombard recruiters with too many follow-up emails. Recruiters are busy, and too frequent communication can make you seem pushy. A quick check-in every few weeks is sufficient.

Be responsive and timely

Recruiters often work under tight deadlines, so it’s important to be responsive when they reach out to you. Whether they’re sharing a job opportunity, asking for more information, or scheduling an interview, quick replies show that you’re engaged and serious about your job search. This responsiveness builds trust and demonstrates your professionalism.

Provide thorough feedback

After going through an interview process facilitated by your recruiter, take the time to provide feedback. Let them know how the interview went, what you thought of the company, and any concerns you may have. This feedback helps the recruiter fine-tune their search on your behalf and improves the chances of finding an even better match moving forward.

Sample feedback message if you have a concern:

Hi [Recruiter’s Name],

Thank you for setting up the interview with [Company Name]. I felt the interview went well and appreciated learning more about the role. I noticed [Specific Detail About the Interview or Company], which I wanted to discuss with you. I’m still very interested in opportunities within [Industry or Field] and would love to hear your thoughts on how I can better prepare for similar interviews in the future. Thanks again for your support!

Best regards,
[Your Name]

Maximizing your recruiter’s expertise

Recruiters are industry experts who understand market trends, in-demand skills, and what employers look for in candidates. Use this to your advantage.

Leverage their industry knowledge

Ask your recruiter for feedback on your resume, interview skills, or how you can better position yourself in the market. Their insights can give you a competitive edge.

Don’t

Don’t be shy about asking for advice. Recruiters are there to help you succeed and are more than happy to share their expertise with serious candidates.

Be open to suggestions

Recruiters may suggest roles or industries you hadn’t initially considered. Keep an open mind—they know the market and where your skills might fit best.

Insider Tip

If a recruiter offers you feedback or recommends a different career path, consider their advice carefully. They have deep industry knowledge and may see potential in you that you hadn’t recognized.

Nurturing long-term relationships

Working with a recruiter isn’t just a one-time interaction. Building a long-term relationship can benefit you throughout your career, helping you stay on top of new opportunities and market trends.

Once you’ve landed a job, don’t disappear. Keep in touch with your recruiter, share updates on your progress, and thank them for their support. This ensures that you’ll be on their radar when future opportunities arise.

Sample follow-up email post-placement:

Hi [Recruiter’s Name],

I wanted to let you know that I’m settling in well at [Company Name]. The role is exactly what I was looking for, and I’m excited to continue growing here. I really appreciate all your help in making this happen. Let’s stay in touch—I’d love to keep you updated on my progress and work with you again in the future.

Best regards,
[Your Name]

Don’t

Don’t think of recruiters only as a means to an end. Build a lasting relationship with them, and they can help you as you grow in your career.

Refer other job seekers

If you’ve had a positive experience with a recruiter, consider referring other job seekers their way. Not only does this help out your peers, but it also strengthens your relationship with the recruiter. They’ll appreciate the referral and may be more inclined to assist you later.

Suggested referral message:

Hi [Recruiter’s Name],

I wanted to let you know about a friend/colleague, [Friend’s Name], who is seeking opportunities in [Industry or Field]. I’ve shared your contact information with them, as I think you could help them in their job search, just like you did for me. I hope you’ll be able to connect. Thanks again for all your help!

Best regards,
[Your Name]

Stay connected on LinkedIn

Maintaining a professional network is critical for long-term career success. After you’ve landed a job, stay connected with your recruiter on LinkedIn. Engage with their posts, share your career milestones, and keep them updated on your professional growth. This continued interaction helps keep you in the recruiter’s mind for future opportunities and fosters a relationship that could be beneficial when you’re ready to make your next career move.

Example LinkedIn message post-placement:

Hi [Recruiter’s Name], I wanted to thank you again for your help in landing my role at [Company Name]. I’m really enjoying the work and am learning a lot. I’ll keep you posted on how things are going, and I look forward to staying connected here on LinkedIn. Please feel free to reach out if any opportunities arise in the future that might be a good fit for my growing skill set.

Keep in touch

Even if you’re not actively job searching, checking in with your recruiter every few months is a good idea. This can be a simple email or LinkedIn message to touch base, update them on any new skills or certifications you’ve acquired, and express your ongoing interest in keeping in touch. Regular check-ins keep your relationship active and ensure you’re considered for any exciting new roles that come across the recruiter’s desk.

Sample check-in email:

Hi [Recruiter’s Name],

I hope you’re doing well! I wanted to give you a quick update—I recently completed a certification in [New Skill or Area], and I’m continuing to enjoy my role at [Company Name]. I’m not actively looking right now, but I’m always open to hearing about interesting opportunities that might align with my career goals. Thanks for all your continued support, and let’s stay in touch!

Best regards,
[Your Name]

Key Takeaways

  • First impressions matter: Whether you’re reaching out by phone, email, or LinkedIn, your goal is to come across as professional, enthusiastic, and easy to work with.
  • Stay prepared: Always have your resume updated, and clearly communicate your career goals to help recruiters match you with positions that are a great fit.
  • Be responsive: When recruiters reach out, it’s nearly always because they have a client looking for a quick turnaround. Get back to them as soon as you can.
  • Leverage recruiter expertise: Don’t be afraid to ask for advice on improving your job search materials or interview skills. Recruiters know what hiring managers are looking for.
  • Maintain the relationship: Keep in touch with recruiters, even after you’ve found a job, and offer referrals when possible. Building long-term relationships can open doors in the future.